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Skip to content Menu Home Visit Ask Leo! About & Contact Chester August 12, 2020 August 12, 2020 by Leo Chester (Brookehaven on Second Thought) 18-Apr-2007 – 12-Aug-2020 Chester the log dog In 2011 we got a call from our breeder that, for reasons unrelated to the dog, she’d had one responsibly returned. The catch was that this was the son of one of our other dogs, Dagmar . It was an opportunity she wanted to offer to us first. Read more Categories Pets 21 Comments Wear a Mask – Don’t Be A Dick August 10, 2020 August 10, 2020 by Leo No, I’m not saying you’re a dick for not wearing a mask. Maybe you are, maybe you’re not, but that’s not what I’m saying. In fact it’s very possible I’m saying exactly the opposite. People are so freakin’ quick to judge, it’s frustrating. We’ve become so incredibly judgmental, and most often without even a shred of evidence. And yes, if that makes me sound judgmental, so be it. I also can’t tolerate intolerance. Read more Categories Personal Opinion 4 Comments Science is Evolution in Action July 19, 2020 July 19, 2020 by Leo There’s a line of thought among some of the COVID-19 conspiracy or anti-mask crowds running like this: do nothing and let people get sick. It’s how evolution works; the strong will survive, and humanity will be better for it. Besides, things aren’t as bad as [the government / the media / the liberals / the fraidy-cats] makes it out to be, anyway. There’s a lot wrong with that thinking I won’t get into. My point is more fundamental: it doesn’t have to be that way. Evolution can do better, and is, in fact, doing so right now. You can watch if you want to see it, and know where to look. But you might also want to help. Read more Categories Personal Opinion Leave a comment Was My Dad Ahead of His Time? July 5, 2020 June 22, 2020 by Leo Assembly drawing, c1969 – Leo J. Notenboom (Click for larger image.) Pictured above is a drawing my father created in or before 1969. I don’t believe that it depicts anything particularly remarkable, but this isn’t my field. What is remarkable is that this image exists at all. Read more Categories Family 3 Comments Father’s Day Thoughts June 22, 2020 June 21, 2020 by Leo The Notenbooms, circa late 1957 or early 1958 (Click for large image.) My dad (b. 1916) would have loved the internet. I’m not sure he’d deal well with all the technology side of things — that could go either way: frustrated with the fragility, or stubborn enough to not let it get the best of him. I think of him often, and usually in the form of “Oh, he would’a loved that!” Read more Categories Family 1 Comment How I’m “Stepping Away” From Facebook June 16, 2020 June 16, 2020 by Leo (Because I’m “stepping away” from Facebook, I may post more frequent, shorter things on my blog https://leo.notenboom.org . For example the things I might have shared on Facebook might end up here. Or not. We’ll see. Interesting times.) About a week ago I decided I really needed a break from Facebook. It was impacting my attitude, impacting my sleep, increasing my depression, increasing my anxiety, and decreasing my productivity. These are all things I’m normally extremely good at managing. But not here, not now. You know the drill: Facebook bad. But, of course, it’s not quite that simple. Read more Categories Blog Stuff 18 Comments There Is No “Over”, There Is Only “New” May 24, 2020 May 24, 2020 by Leo Health workers during the ‘Spanish’ influenza pandemic. “When this is over…” It’s a phrase we’re hearing or saying often, of late, frequently followed by a litany of activities to resume after things return to normal. I’ll admit, it’s comforting to dream of a time when we’ll do what we did as we did before. Unfortunately “when this is over…” is a lie. Read more Categories Personal Opinion 3 Comments Looking For Opportunity in Crisis May 21, 2020 May 21, 2020 by Leo Two months ago the coronavirus wiped out two thirds of Ask Leo! ‘s ad revenue. Two weeks ago a Google search algorithm update cut my traffic in half. I’m not the only business in this position, online or off. For these and other reasons many businesses around the world are suffering. Here’s what I’m doing about it, in the hopes it’ll give you ideas to follow along, survive, and perhaps even thrive. Read more Categories Personal Opinion 4 Comments Control April 22, 2020 April 20, 2020 by Leo These are scary times. Angry times. Frightening times. Sad times. Anxious times. Fetal position not wanting to get out of bed times. Needing to work on it all to stay sane times. The trick, for me, is identifying what’s under my control, and what isn’t. Focus on the former and let go of, or at least don’t dwell on, the later. I don’t always succeed. Read more Categories Philosophy 6 Comments What Can I Learn? April 5, 2020 April 5, 2020 by Leo Back in the day when I would look for a new position within Microsoft, one of my guiding questions was “what can I learn?” It was one of several criteria I used to evaluate opportunities. Rather than move to a new position doing the same thing, I preferred to find roles where I could both contribute and learn something new. There wasn’t a plan, really; I wasn’t looking for something specific. I would just look at a job opportunity and see if there was something interesting for me to pick up. I think my career, both during, and post-Microsoft has benefited as a result. It comes to mind because that approach feels like a huge opportunity in these “interesting” times. Read more Categories Philosophy 3 Comments Notice Your Focus March 1, 2020 March 1, 2020 by Leo This is not a meditation post, I promise. Most meditation practices have you focus on your breath as part of the exercise. It’s always there (we hope), it’s always changing just a little, and it’s relatively easy to focus your attention on it. Some practitioners will say focus on where you feel it “the most” — being your stomach, your lungs, whatever. When the monkey-mind isn’t successful in dragging me away from it, I focus on my sinuses. I find it absolutely fascinating what happens when I do. Read more Categories Philosophy 4 Comments The Audacity of Positivity November 22, 2019 November 22, 2019 by Leo In recent weeks I’ve run across at least two essays — one from a writer whom I respect greatly — that call into question those of us that try to maintain and share a positive outlook during these turbulent times. The message seems to boil down to this: if you have the option of expressing some amount of positivity then you’re clearly not paying attention to what’s going on around you. I beg to differ, Read more Categories Philosophy 4 Comments Luck Isn’t Always Luck October 28, 2019 October 28, 2019 by Leo I’ve lead a very lucky life, there’s no doubt. I reflect on it often, and try to remain constantly grateful. But there’s an aspect to my “luck” a friend brought to my attention that made me realize there’s much more to it than the serendipity the word luck implies. One has to prepare and be open to being lucky. Read more Categories -20 : Thoughts for Those Who Follow 3 Comments This, Too, Shall Pass October 20, 2019 by Leo Tears were running down my cheeks. Serious, vision-blurring tears. Which was probably a bad thing, since I was driving at the time, and my path included at least one school zone. It was probably around 2001 or 2002, and I was on my way from my home to that of my parents. My mom had just called with some situation that my dad, who had alzheimer’s, had likely gotten himself into. It was a crisis of some sort — small or large — but the severity of each had been increasing over time. I’d be in tears again on the return trip home. It’s hard to drive that same road today and not remember. Dealing with my parents as they aged, being the designated on-call crisis manager, was incredibly stressful. But it was also incredibly educational. I learned a lot about myself, and life, in those tumultuous days. Read more Categories -20 : Thoughts for Those Who Follow Maybe Some...